We have had some happier news in the past couple of days, and it has been very welcomed, believe me!
First of all, our Texas house is in escrow. Yep, it was put on the market on Saturday, and we had an offer on Monday. We countered, and we agreed on a price. We almost got our asking price! The house was on the market for only 36 hours, which in this economy is a miracle! We signed the paperwork today, and the new owners want to close on August 12. I am keeping my fingers crossed that this goes through because this would save us from having us to pay rent here in Vegas plus our mortgage in Texas. We were warned it could take quite a few months to get it sold, but nope — less than 36 hours!
Our nursing was extended until August 10th, thank goodness!! Our insurance company cut us back from 12 hours a day and 7 days a week to 8 hours a day for 5 days a week. But you know what, considering that we were told that they may cut us off after today, we are ecstatic!! We will get our favorite day nurse 3 days a week, which is wonderful, because Hannah has really become attached to her. She is just a great person, and you can tell that Hannah has truly captured her heart!
Yesterday, Daddy and I had a lunch date. On our own, with no kids. Our favorite day nurse stayed home with Hannah (after strongly encouraging us to go and that she and Hannah will be fine) and Ethan and Abigail were with my in-laws. Even though we spent the first 2-1/2 hours at the DMV together, we actually went to Sunset Station casino and had a quiet lunch and walked around for a bit, holding hands. It had been so dang long since he and I had spent any time together (outside of the hospital). I think our last date was 18 months ago when our neighbor babysat all three kids!
Also, what is nice about having our nursing extended is that Daddy and I can spend some more quality time together. If my inlaws want to take the kids for an afternoon/evening while we go out, our nurse can go with them and take care of Hannah, leaving my inlaws to just be able to play with her and have fun as grandparents without having to worry about trach care, gtube feedings, and medications.
Tomorrow is Hannah’s speech and occupational therapy evaluations at My Left Foot Children’s therapies. It is a local private children’s therapy group. We still have our intake with Early Intervention next month, but in light of what has happened with Hannah, I think that having more focused and experienced PT (on Mondays) and OT will really make a different right now even if it means we have to drive to them instead of having it at our house.
I have to tell ya, just having our house in Escrow right now and knowing that we have some nursing help for the next 4 weeks has just lifted a huge load off my shoulders. Of course I’m nervous that the house will fall through, but at least we are moving forward right now instead waiting for someone to make us an offer!
Awe hon I’m SO happy for you!!! And I agree taking time to be with your husband is SO important and one of the things we did wrong in our marriage. Instead we made a “pact” to always have one of us with one of the girls at all time so neither of them felt left out. Well that was really dumb for our marriage, great for the kids. Of course when Emma was really sick or we had meetings Maddi was with us but we only had 1 night in 317 days that my mom had Emma and Dee’s mom had Maddi and he laid with me all night and just held me and I will NEVER forget it! We got sleep and rested knowing our girls were taken care of. So, again I am so happy for you to take the time! How are her withdrawals???
Carrie, I’m so glad y’all have gotten some good news! That’s just wonderful that the Texas house sold so quickly, and so good for y’all to get some couple time knowing the kids are in good hands.
Don’t be a little black cloud, it’s not your nature….your house will go through…you deserve it. Glad to hear things are settling down in Vegas.
Things are looking up for you! Let that sun shine in hon!
big breath out….ahhhhhhhhhhhh.
Oh WOW Carrie what wonderful news about the house and FINGERS AND TOES CROSSED that it goes thru!!! And the news of the nursing care being extended is just wonderful not to mention it gives you and Bobby some R and R time together.(How nice that you got to walk holding hands and having a nice dinner together) The fact that you have a wonderful nurse at home looking after Hannah for those precious few hours helped you to be able to enjoy your nite out).I am just so happy for you !
The light at the end of that tunnel is peeking in just a little for you and will eventually getter brighter and brighter!!
Our prayers are always with you!
Susan