Our 12-1/2-year old beagle’s body is failing her. Molly lies on her dog bed all day long, and when she does get up to walk to the food or water, it is a very slow, uneven, and limpy type of walk. Going through the doggie door takes her quite a bit of time, as she is slowgoing. Also, Daddy had to make a path around the deck because she can no longer go up the stairs.
Instead of getting up to bark, she lies there on her bed yelping when someone comes in the door these days.
But she does not seem like she is in pain.
Daddy and I are faced with the decision now as to “when” it is okay to let her go. This decision seems so much harder these days, especially in light of all of those children that are fighting so desperately for life right now. I feel like this decision is now so much bigger than just one dog, you know? It is almost like this decision of “when or wait” is going to dictate so much more of our life than we expected. Quality of life versus quantity?
My dilemma stems from having Ethan and Abby find her either not breathing or suffering if we don’t do something. I feel it would be more devastating for them seeing Molly no longer alive than if it happens when they are away at school or something.
For me, I think it is almost time. Daddy is not so sure. Neither of us know when the right time is. We are both afraid to make that determination. Shouldn’t it be an easier decision?
Obviously, I know there is a bigger picture here with this decision that is making it so much more difficult than it should be. I can’t even put it into words, but I really don’t need to. I know there is only so much protecting of Ethan and Abigail I can do…I just don’t know what to do.
I feel your pain Carrie. Our 10 1/2 year old Jack Russell sleeps most of the day and has arthritis. I just can’t let go. She is my “baby girl”.
Talk to the kids Carrie. I was shocked at the boys’ ability to help Steve & I through this a few years ago. They each had their own perspective on the situation and appreciated being a part of the process. Jared needed to not be home, Joel needed to come with me to drop her at the vet, Jeremy needed to link in electronically w his dad to say goodbye by phone. I am not saying it was an easy time around here but I felt better knowing it was a family decision.
Carrie, I know that is a hard one. I have been there. I’m sorry you have to make the call- it’s really tough.